What a woman wants!

Okay: I Read in some place that most of women like an intellectual type of man, and financial independence as well. That looks is not a must or they even don't care for guys with muscle or gym vagabonds.  If this statement I read is true, so how come we see less and less guys in school and the gyms full of guys working out longer hours because 2/3 of their workout they are looking at themselves on mirrors and/or talk garbage about the ladies in the gym. I even read that some of them take pictures of themselves and the ladies and post online....Pathetic!!! Oh yeah one last thing: Guys wash you freaky hands when you use the restrooms!!! Jesussss have some common sense!